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....for the lackluster mediocrity of my recent blog activities.

I guess I was starting to fall into the pity-pot a little lately. Shame on me, LIFE IS GOOD....BE IN IT!

How easily I forget how lucky I am. I could carry on this way, grab a bottle of blended Canadian and be in jail before midnight (again).

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 In Tokyo in the Meiji era there lived two prominent teachers of opposite characteristics. One, Unsho, an instructor in Shingon, kept Buddha's precepts scrupulously. He never drank intoxicants, nor did he eat after eleven o'clock in the morning. The other teacher, Tanzan, a professor of philosophy at the Imperial University, never observed the precepts. Whenever he felt like eating, he ate, and when he felt like sleeping in the daytime he slept.

One day Unsho visited Tanzan, who was drinking wine at the time, not even a drop of which is suppposed to touch the tongue of a Buddhist.

"Hello, brother," Tanzan greeted him. "Won't you have a drink?"

"I never drink!" exclaimed Unsho solemnly.

"One who does not drink is not even human," said Tanzan.

"Do you mean to call me inhuman just because I do not indulge in intoxicating liquids!" exclaimed Unsho in anger. "Then if I am not human, what am I?"

"A Buddha," answered Tanzan.

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lindainks55 said:
 
Glad you found the boot straps! I've been looking for them too. And, while some friends here on our blog have some real problems it's silly, and downright selfish to think I have problems!

I am thankful for kind good people who value friendship and know that there is nothing that can't be handled more easily together than alone! You guys are the best!
 
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Rox said:
 
I hear ya, Tracy! And Linda, too. Those bootstraps can sometimes be a daily struggle to pull up, but in the act of tugging, we make progress. Even an inch is better than nothing.
 
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Vaughn Tolle said:
 
I'm a bit melancholy this morning; not over my wife's situation, but as the result of the young man who was killed on I-135 yesterday morning. He was one of "my kids" from NEMHS musicals, who had his entire life ahead of him. From the sketchy description in the Eagle, he was likely going a bit too fast and rear ended the car in front of him. When they pulled over to inspect the damage (I suspect not as far off the road as they should have been), the SUV (IIRC) hits his car, and the rest is, as it is said, history. And I think I have problems.
 
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Rox said:
 
Oh, VT, I'm so very sorry to hear that the young man was one of "your kids". I heard about the accident early yesterday morning. When my #2 daughter dropped the grandkids off, she mentioned that I should find another route to take #3 daughter to work and explained what she had heard on the radio. (We take 125 to K96, a route I detest, but not using means it takes twice as long to get her there.)

While it may be true that the two drivers might not have pulled over as far as possible, there's little room for a disabled car. And the morning rush hour traffic is HORRENDOUS. Drivers don't seem to be aware of anything but themselves. When my car quit in the middle lane on 135, just past the Kellogg on ramp, I couldn't get the emergency blinker on. We were nearly run into repeatedly, and if it hadn't been for a couple of good souls who stopped and helped, I wouldn't be here to tell the story. Guardian angels were working overtime that morning.

My heart goes out to both of the people involved in the accidents and to their families, loved ones, and friends, including you.
 
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Rox said:
 
125=135

>slapping fingers for not obeying<
 
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VeeTee, I know that feeling well.
I quit going to AA 9 years ago when I felt that way.
I'm not sure what kinda' trigger was pulled right then, but in short:
I was there sharing some of my pity about my dad's condition. One of the others immediatly says "Everything happens for a reason."
My reply then is the same as now....BULLSHIT!
So I quit the AA habit along with the booze.
HA!

Not to make light of this tradgedy, there are bad things that randomly happen. Still makes me angry when people say that.
 
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Vaughn Tolle said:
 
Tracy, your response to the "Everything happens for a reason" cliche is a bit like mine, but out of consideration for others, I shall not post it here.

My personal thoughts on AA and similar programs is that these shift the focus of addiction from the booze to something else which is generally less destructive (but not always) in the eyes of society. The person attending the meetings gets his/her "fix" from them, but the underlying issues still remain. Again, my personal thoughts and opinion.
 
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lindainks55 said:
 
When I heard the sad news and where he was a student plus that he was interested in drama I guessed this would be personal with you, Vaughn. I'm very sorry. This kind of tragedy is difficult when you don't know the young person and a special hurt when you do.
 
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Vaughn Tolle said:
 
Yep, Linda, a special hurt indeed. He was a very fine young man, who was applying for an appointment to the Air Force Academy. From my brief discussions with him, he was, as his father was quoted in the piece in the Eagle, interested in two things; flying and engineering. Had he been successful in obtaining the appointment, and had this tragedy not occurred, he would have maximized the educational opportunity in engineering; I can't say how he would have done as a pilot, but he would have, based upon my too brief acquaintance, been a good officer.
 
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VT, yep. I got outta there and got a real life.

I'm not saying that it wasn't good.
It saved my life.

Just hadda move on.
 
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Vaughn Tolle said:
 
Tracy, understand.
 
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Julie said:
 
MM News flash!!!!!!!

He's being transferred out of ICU today and into a regular room!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For insurance purposes he'll be going into a rehab hospital (that's actually part of St. Francis - but he'll still be in St. Francis).


I am SOOOO HAPPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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Vaughn Tolle said:
 
All right, Julie; good news, good news.
 
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lindainks55 said:
 
Great news Julie! We'll even forgive you for causing an exclamation point shortage. ;-) We'll find other punctuation until the supply is replenished.
 
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Julie said:
 
Linda,
There will be no shortage. I've not used my quota in the past and so this is a surplus that has been used.

:)
 
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That is Greeaaaat!
 
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Rox said:
 
A WOO HOO on the moved-to-a-regular-room news!!! (That's (3) !!!'s for me, so I'll be careful.)

My mom may be going to St. Francis soon. Heart surgery likely (will know more tomorrow) and a spot of colon cancer. If MM is still there, I'll visit them both some weekend.
 
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